"Hey Relle Girl!"

Since this post has circulated throughout social media, it is clear that this topic will forever be discussed. I saw a lot of women commenting on this post and, by the looks of their responses, you could probably tell who was single and who wasn't. It was disheartening to see women bashing the girlfriend in the comments because they felt like she was being insecure. Umm...was she? Come on, now! You think this woman is wrong for not wanting her man to keep being too chummy with his female friend(s)? Who are you kidding? Now, okay, some of us don't have male best friends so we really can't relate. But for those that do, you may be unaware of just how "common" you've gotten with this man. A great benefit of having a male best friend is having a knight in shining amour that will more than likely run to your side if you need him yet he is well aware of his place. His place? "Bro"..."Brother"..."NOT your boo". You've made th...

Theater Worker: "Popcorn?" Customer: "No, I'll take the Triple Bacon Deluxe value meal w/ cheese. Thank you." Everyone has, at some point, developed a vice for when they're bored. Everyone. If you say you don't then I don't think you're being very honest with yourself. Well, I take that back. Maybe it isn't necessarily a vice. Perhaps, you are just trying to fill a void or keep yourself occupied. Unfortunately, those things can sometimes become bad habits. And bad habits can be easy to develop. *bites Twinkie* America is what I call the Captain of Comfort. After a long day of punching the old clock, we go home to a 24/7 stream of comforting distractions. Hundreds of channels are just a button away, our bed has enough Memory Foam to last a lifetime of memories, and spending less than 90 minutes on Social Media is almost unheard of. But the most common bad habit possibly known to man is overeating. Dare to argue with that? Our nati...

Music is a universal language that has brought the masses together for centuries. It makes us dance, cry, shout, and think. Music has this amazing ability to fuse fantasy with reality. It has the ability to distort what's good and what just feels good. It can be sneaky. But hey, as long as it has a good message, it gets heavy rotation in my phone. I listen to a variety of music because not all music is bad. But if you're not paying attention, you can recite lyrics that are no good for you. I've been out of the loop lately, but most music lovers know that one of the hottest albums of 2017 was Sza's Ctrl  album .  Everyone was singing, "Why you bother me when you know you don't want me?" as if they would get a solid answer.  And then, here comes  The Weekend. It seemed like  Love Galore was   the prelude to that song, asking, "Why you bother me when you know you got a woman?" I thought, "Oh, Lord. Here goes another side chick anthem." ...

"...more baby showers than weddings!"-Kevon Stage *Long sigh* Now, at first glance, this looks like a hot mess. At second glance, I look at it and agree that this topic needs to be discussed more in church. Especially, for those who are just starting out in their walk. For the most part, as singles, we know what we aren't supposed to be doing. And we SHOULDN'T be doing those things, especially if we call ourselves followers of Christ. Sex before marriage is n ot God's way. However, the desire for sex doesn't just vanish into thin air. Even when you don't put yourself in those situations, it seems like most things are sexually charged and right in your face these days. They made a cat food commercial sexual, for crying out loud! Anyway, the young lady may have the right motive and wrong method or vice versa. I'm not sure. Hopefully, she's sending out the right message. (I would have left the word horny out, but that's just me) ...

Disclaimer: This post is meant to be humorous. Please don't have a cow.   Over the years, there have been many debates on how parents should discipline children. Parents have traded in the old-school rod for a simple 3 minute timeout. It seems as if each generation gets more and more lax when it comes to disciplining children. However, it seems that each generation gets worse and worse. Spankings should always stay around. Here's why: 1) It's biblical.  The Bible says that whoever spares the rod hates their children (Proverbs 13:24). I know, I know...you love your kids. And you would never do anything to hurt them. But sometimes, you need to put a hurting on them. In other words, tag that booty! Spanking is not the ONLY way to discipline your children, but neither is a timeout. There's something about a pop on the butt that can get a child's attention in a way that sitting in a corner can not. Besides, who on earth would argue with the B...

Dealing with personal issues can be tough. Especially, since dealing with them requires our willingness to be open. Some topics are just easier to discuss than others. Usually, when someone asks us about our insecurities and issues, we tend to only scratch the surface. We cringe at the thought of stripping ourselves of daily ostentations that we call confidence. That kind of exposure requires vulnerability and, quite frankly, being vulnerable is usually the last thing on our list of priorities. For many of us, it's just easier to get into a conversation about someone else. It's almost like hearing about another person's shortcomings can make us feel good about ourselves or give us relief that we're not the only ones with issues. It's unfortunate, but that tends to be our nature. We choose to partake in these conversations and, in some cases, we leave people with the idea that we have it all together. Or, at least we...

            What is a mother? Have you ever asked yourself that question? Sure, society thinks about it at least once a year around Mother’s Day, but do we ever answer it for ourselves? If you ask me, I think a mother is one of the best blessings that a person can have in life. That definition may not be in Webster’s Dictionary, but it’s in Charelle’s Dictionary. I’m so blessed to have two mothers. Some women have the honor of giving birth to children and raising them.  By nature, she dedicates most of her time and energy to her sons and daughters and the needs of those children are usually met without hesitation. Growing up, I really don’t remember going to bed hungry. If I did, it was probably on those nights when peas were on the menu. I hated peas so most of them went into the trash. Sorry, mom. Lol. There were days that I didn’t see my mother that much because when I was just getting home from sch...