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"...more baby showers than weddings!"-Kevon Stage

*Long sigh*

Now, at first glance, this looks like a hot mess. At second glance, I look at it and agree that this topic needs to be discussed more in church. Especially, for those who are just starting out in their walk. For the most part, as singles, we know what we aren't supposed to be doing. And we SHOULDN'T be doing those things, especially if we call ourselves followers of Christ. Sex before marriage is not God's way. However, the desire for sex doesn't just vanish into thin air. Even when you don't put yourself in those situations, it seems like most things are sexually charged and right in your face these days. They made a cat food commercial sexual, for crying out loud!



Anyway, the young lady may have the right motive and wrong method or vice versa. I'm not sure. Hopefully, she's sending out the right message. (I would have left the word horny out, but that's just me) But the fact that she was shut down for wanting to talk about it makes me wonder why this topic seems shied away from in church. The world talks about sex so openly to the point that, because it's them talking about it, it can feel wrong to do or say if you are saved. *Disclaimer: And AGAIN, people of God, we should not have sex before marriage. I feel like I have to keep stressing that so no one misreads this* I'm just stating all of this in general, guys, so please don't pop me.



This just seems like a topic that needs to be addressed more in detail, other than a dismissive "You shouldn't be thinking about that." response or something. People need to know that they can be honest with God and with themselves about how they feel. People need to know that the Holy Spirit is there to help with this. Yep, even this. People need to know sex isn't "bad", it just needs to be done the right way. People need to know, not just the why's, but the how's. You know? Who knows? Maybe we'll start have more weddings than baby showers. *Kanye shrug*
Thoughts?
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